Making good choices means accepting that even the best decisions will have drawbacks. Often, though, we believe that if we make the right choices, there will be no downside. Then, when we live out that choice and discover its drawbacks.

Good decisions mean a wholehearted yes to both the positives and negatives that come with any choice. Every state of life, every decision, includes some pain that must be accepted if you are to enter fully into those decisions, and into new life. “All symphonies remain unfinished,” said Karl Rahner. There is no perfect decision, perfect outcome, or perfect life. Embracing imperfection helps us relax into reality. When we accept that all choices are conditional, limited, and imperfect, our lives become, paradoxically, more satisfying, joyful, and peaceful.

All this points us to the unconditional, unlimited, and perfect One to whom we say yes: God. All of our decisions should be focused on this reality. “Our only desire and our one choice,” said Ignatius, “should be this: I want and choose what better leads to God’s deepening his life in me.”

Ignatian discernment may seem complicated—with its definitions of consolation, desolation, and confirmation, not to mention the Three Times and the Two Methods, as well as the spoiled child, the false lover, and the army commander. But at heart it is simple. Ignatian discernment means trusting that through your reason and your inner life, God will help to draw you to good decisions, because God desires for you to make good, loving, healthy, positive, life-giving choices. So find whatever works for you, whatever draws you closer to God, and whatever helps you make good decisions. Most of all, trust that God is with you as you choose your paths in this life.

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